apt install qemu-system libvirt-daemon-system
adduser $USER libvirt
apt install virt-manager # nice GUI
# edit the config
EDITOR=nano sudo virsh edit --domain vm_name
# resize the disk
sudo qemu-img resize /path/to/vm.qcow2 +20G
# then inside the VM
fdisk /dev/vda
partprobe
resize2fs /dev/vdaNUMBER